Alternatives To Alcohol: How To Relax Without Risks Of Abuse

Last Updated: June 16, 2020

Authored by Nena Messina, Ph.D.

Millions of people across America have serious drinking problems. One underlying reason for this fact is the common use of alcohol in everyday social settings. In addition, many people turn to drinking as a form of relaxation or stress relief. Whatever the motive for alcohol use, a pattern of excessive intake can result in the onset of alcoholism or clinical alcohol abuse. Fortunately, there is a range of healthy alternatives to drinking. These alternatives address some of the main motivations for alcohol consumption and don’t lead to the use of any other mind-altering substance.

Healthy Alternatives for Alcohol Use in Social Settings

Social drinking does not typically increase risks for serious alcohol problems as long as beer, wine or liquor intake does not exceed moderate levels. The National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism (NIAAA) sets daily moderate intake for men at a maximum of four standard drinks. Women stay within range when they consume no more than three standard drinks a day. To avoid increasing their risks for alcohol-related problems, men must also keep their total weekly intake under 15 drinks. Women must keep their weekly intake under eight drinks.
Many adults will find it easy to stretch the limits of the NIAAA guidelines by doing nothing more than taking part in social drinking at gatherings and events. This is true, in part, because of the prevalence of drinking as a social activity. A desire to join in with others also plays a role. It can be challenging to stand in a room of drinkers and control the urge to raise a glass along with everyone else.
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Non-alcoholic beverages can help simulate the ritual of drinking without increasing alcohol-related risks. Common examples of these beverages include:

  • Club soda
  • Sparkling juices
  • Non-alcoholic mixed drinks (i.e., “mocktails”) that mimic the taste of their alcohol-containing counterparts

“Non-alcoholic” beers can also provide a healthy way to avoid drinking in social settings. However, despite their name, these products do contain small amounts of alcohol. This fact makes them unsuitable for people currently affected by diagnosable drinking problems. People not affected by alcohol abuse or alcoholism may find that the flavor profiles of non-alcoholic beers make them an excellent substitute for the real thing.

Alternatives to Drinking Alcohol to Relax

Whether consumed alone or in the company of others, alcohol is often a go-to choice for its perceived ability to increase relaxation and decrease stress. The substance’s reputation for stress relief is not entirely undeserved. Well before the body reaches the point of legal intoxication, alcohol’s effects on the brain can lead to an increased sense of ease. However, in people who imbibe in excessive amounts, the brain effects of drinking can change drastically. Instead of contributing to a decline in stress levels, heavy alcohol consumption can worsen stressful feelings, make it difficult to relax and help create a general sense of unease.

Active healthy runner jogging outdoor
Some heavy drinkers have diagnosable symptoms of alcoholism. However, most do not. Instead, they exceed the limits for moderate intake by taking part in the practice of binge drinking. An alcohol binge is defined by the act of consuming enough beer, wine or liquor to achieve a state of drunkenness (i.e., a blood alcohol content of at least 0.08) in two hours or less. In America, roughly one out of every six adults meets this standard one or more times a month. Regular binging can raise alcoholism risks by as much as 50 percent.
There are a broad range of alternatives to drinking for stress relief. One time-tested option is involvement in aerobic activity such as:

  • Jogging
  • Swimming
  • Walking
  • Running
  • Bicycling
  • Dancing
  • Basketball
  • Racquet sports
  • Lawn or garden work

These activities provide their benefits by doing two things. First, they reduce the body’s production of cortisol, adrenaline, and other stress-generating hormones. In addition, aerobic exercise can help increase the body’s output of “feel-good” endorphins. Production of these chemicals is especially associated with participation in endurance sports like long-distance running.
The list of relaxing alternatives to alcohol use also includes a number of more targeted relaxation techniques. Examples of these techniques include:

  • Meditation – Focused breathing and other meditation techniques can help reduce anxiety levels, as well as ease pain sensitivity and feelings of depression.
  • Body scanning – Also known as progressive muscle relaxation, this approach combines focused breathing with the gradual, intentional release of tension in muscles throughout the body.
  • Deep breathing – This approach promotes relaxation by replacing stress-promoting shallow breathing with slower, deeper inhalations and exhalations.
  • Movement exercises – Exercises such as qigong, tai chi, and yoga promote calm and focus through a series of slow, controlled body movements.
  • Guided Imagery – People who use this technique promote relaxation by focusing on pleasant or inspiring situations, places or past experiences

Changes in lifestyle can also help people avoid heavy drinking. In addition to exercise, a switch to a balanced diet can go a long way toward fostering a sense of well-being and lowering stress levels. Other possible lifestyle alterations include such things as:

  • Learning time management techniques
  • Getting plenty of sleep
  • Socializing with friends in alcohol-free activities
  • Learning how to reduce self-critical behavior
  • Taking occasional breaks from the use of social media and the Internet
  • Taking recreational classes

People who are concerned about their current pattern of drinking can take more drastic lifestyle-related steps. Examples here include:

  • Maintaining an alcohol-free home
  • Avoiding situations where drinking is the norm
  • Setting a limit on consumption before engaging in drinking
  • Learning how to refuse alcohol when personal drinking limits are reached
  • Talking to a trusted friend or loved one about potentially problematic alcohol consumption

In addition, people with serious drinking-related concerns can consult their doctors or an addiction specialist.

Are There Any Drug Alternatives to Alcohol Use?

Alcohol is a central nervous system depressant that produces many of its intoxicating effects by slowing down activity in the brain and spinal cord. The list of substances that slow down the central nervous system also includes the following substances:

Any of the mentioned or other medications should not be used without doctor’s prescription.

For several reasons, none of these drugs provides a suitable alternative to drinking. To begin with, all benzodiazepines, barbiturates and opioid medications are prescription-only items intended for use in people with specific physical or mental health problems. Their use is illegal in any other circumstance. Federal law also completely bans the consumption of opioid street drugs. In addition, just like alcohol, all of these substances have the capacity to make the brain changes that trigger substance abuse and substance addiction.

Addicted man mixing pills with an alcohol
In alcohol treatment programs, doctors do use several approved medications to help participants avoid drinking. One medication, disulfiram (Antabuse), promotes abstinence by ramping up the toxic body effects of alcohol consumption. Another treatment option, naltrexone, makes the process of drinking less pleasurable. A third option, acamprosate (Campral), helps reduce consumption by correcting alcoholism-related imbalances in normal brain chemistry. In treatment, doctors also use behavioral psychotherapy to help participants stay sober and create their own long-term alternatives to drinking.

Methods of Avoiding Alcohol Problems

Despite the prominence of drinking as a social activity and tool for stress relief, people who want to avoid developing alcohol-related problems have a wide array of potential options. Available methods range from non-alcoholic beverage selection and physical exercise to targeted stress relief and lifestyle modification. Not all of these options will appeal to every person. However, with a little experimentation, most people should find a mixture of methods that lead to lowered risks for heavy drinking and alcohol-related health diagnosis.

Glass of mineral water with lemon and ice cube
There are no legal drug options to safely mimic the effects of alcohol intoxication. However, in a treatment environment, several approved medications can help problem drinkers establish or maintain their sobriety. These medications often go hand-in-hand with active forms of psychotherapy.

Page Sources

  1. Dawn E. Sugarman, Kate B. Carey, Drink Less or Drink Slower: The Effects of Instruction on Alcohol Consumption and Drinking Control Strategy Use,
  2. Linden AN, Kite BA, Braitman AL, Henson JM, Protective behavioral strategy use and motivations for drinking: exploring Alternatives to Drinking strategies,

Published on: March 9th, 2018

Updated on: June 16th, 2020

About Author

Nena Messina, Ph.D.

Nena Messina is a specialist in drug-related domestic violence. She devoted her life to the study of the connection between crime, mental health, and substance abuse. Apart from her work as management at addiction center, Nena regularly takes part in the educational program as a lecturer.


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  • Harina
    If you had a sandwich or burger for lunch today, you most likely had more alcohol than a Kombucha. Burger rolls have almost 1.3% alcohol, and a ripe banana or pear has about .4% alcohol. Kombucha is a fermented tea beverage that’s made by adding a symbiotic culture of bacteria and yeast (SCOBY). This solution of tea and sugar produces various compounds, including alcohol and acetic acid, the primary flavor of vinegar. Kombucha helps support healthy liver function and assists the liver in the detoxification process by making fat-soluble toxins water-soluble. A recent study found recovering alcoholics with higher gut bacteria diversity were more successful at staying sober. There is a strong gut-brain connection, and drinking kombucha strengthens that connection by increasing the number of healthy gut bacteria. 80% of serotonin is created in the gut when healthy gut bacteria and function are present. In other words, kombucha is like kefir, it may contains some alcohol, because of fermenting process, but it’s in a level of NA beers. But in the contrary to NA Beers, the kombucha and kefir are not alcohol asociated drinks. People in recovery must work every day to avoid a relapse. That means avoiding the people, places and things associated with your drinking habit. Once you move out of the structure of treatment, it will be essential for you to establish new hobbies, friendships and behaviors that don’t revolve around drinking.
  • Elle A.
    Any written document to give patients who are abstaining from alcohol due to excessive use/abuse but are now trying to use benzos as a substitute? Patient went behind back to get them as we had spent most of the year tapering use. I don’t believe in benzos for daily management of ordinary anxiety due to addictive nature.