According to the findings of a study reported in Addiction, only 43 percent of all those who go through an alcohol addiction treatment program are able to abstain from drinking in the short term. This number is even less for those who do not undergo a formal treatment process—a paltry 21 percent. These numbers prove that relapses among treated and untreated alcohol addicts are very common.
You can win the battle against alcohol, prevent a relapse, and remain sober for life if you do not give in to the triggers.
What Are Alcohol Use Triggers?
Alcohol use triggers are events, people, places, social interactions, situations, and emotions that make a recovering addict feel the need for and then actually reach out for a drink. Yielding to triggers is the first step that for many people marks the start of the road to relapse.
To understand how triggers affect a recovering addict, you have to understand that his or her brain differs fundamentally from that of a person who is not physically and/or psychologically dependent on alcohol:
- Chronic alcohol consumption tweaks the brain’s risk-reward circuitry, so it is able to override the cognitive faculties of the person. The recovering addict’s brain “believes” that drinking is the most effective or rewarding way to deal with problems. He or she responds to problems by drinking.
- The recovering addict has formed a whole new set of behavioral responses based on the “belief” that drinking is a rewarding experience. So his or her automatic behavioral response to the sight of alcohol or that of someone drinking is to “have a drink.”
- The coping mechanisms of a recovering addict are severely compromised. He or she doesn’t know any coping strategy other than drinking. Additionally, being in recovery and having to deal with the distress of physical and mental withdrawal symptoms stretch his or her coping mechanisms to the limit.
Because the recovering addict’s brain perceives and responds to environmental stimuli differently, what is merely a bother to others is a powerful drinking trigger for him or her.
How Not to Yield to Triggers:
You have to gather the facts. You need a plan. You have to execute it thoroughly. You have to “learn” how not to yield to drinking triggers. Triggers are that powerful.
Identify the triggers
Triggers are everywhere around you, and they usually don’t go around looking like something to stay away from. Nor are all drinking triggers seemingly related to alcohol. Learn about the common triggers, so you know when you meet one.
Drinking triggers can be classed into three groups:
- Environmental Triggers
- Re-Exposure Triggers
- Stress Triggers
These include people, places, and events that were once associated with alcohol:
- People you once used to drink with (your drinking buddies)
- Places where you once used to drink, like bars, pubs, or even the closet in your bedroom where you might have sneaked in regularly to drink
- Social events like a gathering of friends or family reunions where drinking was the norm even though they are dry now
These are cues like seeing people drink or having alcohol near you. Even watching alcohol commercials on TV can trigger urges.
Stressors that trigger alcoholism include:
- Negative emotions like fear, anger, anxiety, and depression
- Physical stress such as unpleasant withdrawal symptoms and chronic illnesses
- Sleep deprivation
- Drastic or profound life changes like divorce, work promotion, and other overwhelming events
The following are some common stress triggers:
- Negative Emotions: Emotions like fear, anger, anxiety, guilt, shame, hopelessness, or depression are powerful stressors that tend to overwhelm coping mechanisms. Now the alcoholic in recovery is a person who once used to deal with stress by drinking. He or she has to now relearn healthy coping mechanisms to manage emotional stress. The cognitive center of the brain has to be retrained, so it can analyze and deal with the stressor objectively, without resorting to alcohol, which “feels good” but doesn’t resolve the issue.
- Physical Stress: Physical stress can be a chronic illness, a painful condition, or unpleasant withdrawal symptoms that naturally dampen your mood and may make you want to drown it all in a drink. Ensure that you eat a nutritious diet that will help you heal faster. It is also a good idea not to rush headlong into a rigorous gym or workout routine just when you have started recovering.
- Lack of Sleep: Lack of sleep prolongs any physical healing process that you might be undergoing and can also be a cause for bodily stress. Additionally, being sleep-deprived impairs your ability to recognize triggers and focus on staying away from alcohol.
- Drastic or Profound Life Changes: Profound life changes can leave us feeling overwhelmed. This does not refer only to somber events like loss or separation but also to happy events like marriage, having a baby, or being promoted at work. If you feel that you are incapable of handling the sudden change, you might want to have a drink to steady your nerves.
Avoid the triggers
Needless to say, the best way not to yield to triggers is to stay away from them. You can easily avoid some. You might have to work a little harder to avoid some others. You might also need to alter your life drastically to avoid a few. Here are some ideas on how to avoid the common drinking triggers:
- Ask your friends and family members not to drink in front of you.
- If there are people in your house who drink, request them to stock their supplies where you are not likely to come across them.
- Avoid meeting up with your old drinking buddies. Also, request them not to visit you.
- Avoid going to the places where you used to drink.
- Find new routes to commute to your workplace or school if the earlier one goes past bars or pubs.
- Avoid going to social events where drinks will be served. Politely explain your reason for declining the invitation to avoid being misunderstood.
- Examine relationships that might be stressing you mentally. Talk with the other person to work out solutions to the problems that trigger arguments, misunderstandings, and accusations. Else consider walking out.
- Examine your job and living arrangements to find out if there are emotional and/or physical stressors in them. Inconsiderate boss. Mean co-workers. Long hours that leave you physically drained. Flatmates who push your buttons. A bar next door. A neighbor who is an alcoholic. You could be living with a trigger or walk into one every day.
Battling alcoholism is not a solo venture. Given that the highest number of relapses occur during recovery, you need people in your corner to help you fight triggers and prevent a relapse. You need help from:
- Your family members
- Your friends
- Your co-workers, teachers, and/or classmates
- Professionals like therapists and counselors who can help you retrain your brain and relearn behavioral responses to triggers
- Members of support groups who you can look to for support, advice, understanding, and compassion
Explore Relapse Treatment Methods
Relapse treatment measures fall into two categories: medication therapy and psychotherapy.
Psychotherapy techniques used to treat alcoholism include:
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): The person is taught how to deal with triggers caused by emotional stress
- Contingency Management: This therapy works by receiving rewards like vouchers and movie tickets for staying away from alcohol.
There are medicines prescribed as a part of treatment program for alcohol addicts. Disulfiram, Naltrexone, and Acamprosate are the most known medicines used during the treatment. They work by lessening alcohol cravings and by producing unpleasant side effects when the person starts drinking again.
Medicines are often prescribed as part of an alcohol addiction treatment program to reduce drug use, manage withdrawal symptoms, and lessen cravings. By reducing cravings, these medicines can help decrease the chance of a relapse:
- Disulfiram (Antabuse) is prescribed to reduce initial drug use in addicts who have entered into treatment. This drug produces unpleasant effects like nausea when drinking alcohol. Eventually, the person learns to associate alcohol with these effects and reduces or stops drinking.
- Naltrexone (ReVia, Vivitrol) can manage alcohol cravings.
- Acamprosate (Campral) reduces the appearance and/or severity of alcohol withdrawal symptoms. This, in turn, lessens the urge to drink.
Psychotherapy helps you identify triggers or anticipate them, so you can be on your guard.
The following are some common psychotherapy techniques to help prevent relapse in recovering alcoholics:
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): During these sessions, a person is taught to be mindful of his or her emotions or what’s going on in the environment, so he or she can identify or anticipate triggers. The individual is also taught coping strategies to deal with triggers when they face one, like distracting the mind by reading, going out to walk, listening to music, meditating, or watching a movie. Repeated cue exposure modifies behavioral responses in people who were once used to deal with triggers by drinking.
- Contingency Management: This is a nifty trick! People receive rewards for staying away from alcohol. The rewards can be vouchers they can redeem at a retail store or tickets to a movie or a concert. This relapse prevention technique strives to rewire the brain by making it “learn” that positive behavior is more rewarding than alcohol-seeking actions.
Watch out for the warning signs
A relapse is NOT a momentary lapse. A person starts to slip into his or her old drinking patterns gradually. The warning signs are always there:
- Reconnecting with drinking buddies
- Staying away from people who support sobriety
- Romanticizing alcohol use or being nostalgic about “those good old days”
- Missing appointments with counselors and/or therapists
- Missing medications that may have been prescribed by an addiction specialist
- Not attending support group meetings
- Exhibiting overconfidence and believing you can handle “just one drink” without relapsing
- Drastic changes in mood, like being overcome by feelings of depression and loneliness
- Being unable to deal objectively with common stressful situations of everyday life
- Neglecting personal hygiene
- Staying away from hobbies and activities that were once enjoyable
- Disrupting personal relationship dynamics by lying, arguing, being aloof, and/or refusing help
- Exhibiting alcohol withdrawal symptoms
Myths About Alcohol Relapse
Relapses are frightening, disappointing, and frustrating. The triggers seem to come out of nowhere and catch you unaware. Worse, it is quite hard to fathom how seemingly innocuous people, places, and events can be triggers. It is no wonder myths surround the issue of alcohol relapse and triggers.
Myths breed confusion, anxiety, and fear, which, in turn, lessen your belief in the treatment process or chip away at your confidence. Know what is real and what is not to improve the chances of sobriety.
Myth 1: Being treated for alcoholism guarantees lifelong recovery
First, you have to understand that the rates of alcohol relapse are similar to what they are for other chronic physiological disorders like diabetes, asthma, and hypertension. You have to continue taking your medications for these disorders and maintain a certain lifestyle. Likewise, sobriety is a lifelong journey. It is not a destination where, after you reach, you can put your feet up, relax, and take it easy.
A stint at a treatment center prepares you physically and psychologically for the journey.
Myth 2: Relapse is inevitable after abstinence because the triggers are everywhere
No, unless you give in to the triggers.
Remember those 43 percent of the people who did not relapse? They have the greatest chance of remaining sober for life.You have to tweak your attitudes and beliefs, learn new coping mechanisms, alter self-sabotaging behavioral responses, beat stress, and overcome negativity. This is how you can arm yourself to fight and beat the relapse triggers.
Myth 3: It takes only a moment of weakness to relapse
This is one of the most damaging myths that make people let down their guards and set themselves up for a relapse. The moment when you break the protective barrier that you had so carefully constructed around yourself to reach for a drink and gulp it down, is built over time. It is a chain reaction.
Something upsets you and instead of remaining calm and objective, you react impulsively and let the problem get out of control. Then you feel guilty or embarrassed. Or you feel irritated at the people around you for “making” you react the way you did. So you isolate yourself from these people, places, and situations. As you get lonelier, you start to harbor thoughts of alcohol. Maybe you start to associate yourself with your drinking buddies and romanticize your drinking days and how alcohol made you feel. And it isn’t long before you slip back into your old drinking habits.
One slip does not lead to a relapse. There are warning signs. The alarm bells start ringing long before. If you are mindful, you can recognize these signs and put the brakes on your behavior and tame your thoughts. This stops the chain reaction.
Myth 4: Relapse is a sign of weak will
On the contrary, relapse is another tell-tale evidence of how chronic alcohol abuse tweaks the brain and changes the reward circuitry. These changes take place over time; you cannot expect the brain to snap back to normalcy instantly.
There is much work to be done even after the physical effects of alcohol wear off. The brain has to be retrained. Attitudes and belief systems have to be modified. Behavioral responses have to be relearned. Till then, the chance of a relapse remains high. You cannot intimidate or shame a loved one to stay clean. Nor can the person will himself or herself to abstain from alcohol.
Myth 5: You are alone in this journey
No. In fact, your chances of success decrease drastically if you intend to make the journey alone.
You need the support of your family and friends. They should not expose you to triggers like drinking in your presence, taking you to pubs and bars, or stressing you out emotionally.
According to scientists and doctors, alcoholism is a chronic relapsing disorder. Many recovering addicts relapse, but they also bounce back stronger with the knowledge of how the drinking triggers work on their brains and how they can fight the urges the next time. Believing that triggers can be overcome is the key to preventing a relapse. Know your enemies. Stick to the relapse prevention plan. But most importantly, seek help from those who know the disease and the substance.